June 10 – Just follow the words of the Holy Spirit

Sermon outline: Just follow the words of the Holy Spirit

1. The famous phrase of book “The besieged city”: Marriage is a wall; outsiders want to get in and the insiders want to come out.

2.The most difficult thing to learn is relationship, especial for marriage couples. As marriage couples, we need to learn and refresh to keep a fresh marriage.
(1) Knowing the difference

A. The difference between man and woman
B. Differences in own original families:
C. Different values

(2) Learning to communicate: Often time, there are a lot misunderstanding when communicate, so there are some points of views encourage not to communicate too much to maintain relationship.
A. No power to control one’s mood VS Bible view: Jas 1:19
B. Conversation often becomes a battle field. VS Bible view: Eph 4:26
C. Getting into the other person’s “nuclear zone” VS Bible view: “the nuclear zone” is the area of sin, shame and guilt, needs to be redeemed.
D. “Constructive criticism” does not exist. VS Bible view: proverbs 12:15、Proverbs 13:10
E. Between husbands and wives, you cannot reason VS Bible view: God created man with both rational and emotional
If you have a sudden emergency, whose decision should be made? And how do you make it? Who is more concerned should decide, or whose expertise and works area is more related, then they should decide? VS Bible view: Ephesians 5:22-24

3. If you know the truth clearly, you can’t do it:
(1) You need to be redemption
(2) You need to be filled with Holy Spirit